Book of Questions Friday: Besties Before Testes – Except When It’s Not

Friday’s Question from the Book of Questions Love & Sex by Gregory Stock, PH. D., is question #204. If a close friend reported seeing your partner having a very romantic dinner with someone, but your partner absolutely denied being there, whom would you tend to believe? How strong would the evidence have to be before … Continue reading

Pop Culture Wednesday: The Ratchet My Boughie Won’t Allow

Surprise…I’m boughie! I don’t normally wear my boughie on my sleeve because much like the color yellow it doesn’t mesh well with all skin tones. I’ll let that simmer for a minute. However, I pride myself on being able to blend with all types because hey communication is my thing. I enjoy a rousing intellectual … Continue reading

Pop Culture Wednesday: Converting Heauxs to Housewives

I’ve always struggled with the definition of a heaux. What is it that makes someone undeniably a heaux? And if being one is such a negative thing why are men scooping them up at such frantic rates? I’ve always been of the opinion that a heaux is just a housewife that’s slid down…a pole once … Continue reading

Monday Ranting: #disn*gga – Intentions & Double Standards

Over the past few weeks a couple of things happened. I watched The Butler, read an unsettling article about Madge, and joined a FB discussion all of which somehow or another circled around the N word. A week or so ago Madonna’s tightly botoxed face catapulted to the top of my newsfeed due to a … Continue reading